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Spiritual Estheticss™: How Touch Creates Wellness, Breaks Generational Patterns, and Awakens Inner Beauty

✨ Letter From Spiritual Estheticss™ ✨ πŸ‡΅πŸ‡· In the world of Spiritual Estheticss™, there’s something we rarely say out loud: We’re not just skin-deep. We’re one whole, wonderfully complicated, beautifully messy, cohesive unit. 🌎 ✨ Our spirit, emotions, body, and thoughts are all woven together like a single tapestry. Trying to separate one piece from the rest is like trying to take the tomato out of the salsa. πŸ… πŸ‡΅πŸ‡· 🌟 My Story Growing up, I never really knew what it felt like to be touched gently, without judgment or demands attached. Life was fast, stressful, and full of noise. Then one day, everything shifted! My instructor placed her hands on my face — slowly, gently, with pure kindness. And something inside me just… exhaled. It was the first time I felt that touch could bring wellness, not just fix a problem. It made me feel safe in my own skin. It whispered that I could feel at home inside myself, even if I hadn’t known how bef...

Tricks Are for Kids: A Carrot-Chasing Exit Story | A Spiritual Estheticss Blog πŸ₯•

Official Closing Statement πŸ‡ Tricks Are for Kids, Silly Rabbit πŸ₯• I fell for it again — the carrot, the compliments, the “we see your brilliance” speech. They knew what to say. And I — with my shiny work ethic and healed inner child — took the bait. They asked for everything. And I gave it: time, energy, strategy, ganas. But here’s the plot twist: there was no pie πŸ₯§. Just crumbs. I wasn’t dumb. I was just raised to people-please. And this world? It feeds on that. πŸ₯• I Was Trained to Be Eager Some of us weren’t raised to play the game — we were raised to be helpful. We learned how to anticipate needs, impress others, prove we belonged. So when someone dangles validation or opportunity in front of us, we sprint. Even if it’s a setup. Even if it’s a trick. Because somewhere deep down, we still think maybe this time, we’ll earn o...

Vague, Slippery, Or Evasive Language πŸ—£️πŸͺžπŸ₯£

⚠️ Modern Weasel Words: Let’s Call Them Out — With Amor We've all done it. πŸ’­ Us too. When we’re scared, tired, or trying to stay “nice,” it’s easy to slide into soft language — palabras suaves — that dance around the truth instead of naming it. But the cost? Disconnection, confusion, and emotional fog. ☁️ Below are the modern-day weasel moves — dressed up in new outfits, but still avoiding the heart of the matter. 🀐 Filter-speak — Filtro emocional: Talking in polished quotes, but never saying how we *really* feel. Often sounds like: “I’m sending you love,” instead of, “I’m hurt and not ready to talk yet.” πŸ₯— Word salad — Ensalada de palabras: Jumbled, abstract, overthought explanations that make us feel “off,” but we can’t quite say why. πŸ”„ Spin language — Giro verbal: Reframing something harmful as “a growth opportunity” or “divine timing” to avoid accountability — a.k.a. gaslighting lite. ...